Are you experiencing Relationship Violence or Abuse?

At MFS, we understand that relationship violence and abuse, sometimes referred to as intimate partner violence (IPV) or domestic violence/abuse, is often accompanied by complex emotions, including fear, shame, and confusion. Our therapists are here to provide non-judgmental support and guidance as you navigate this challenging terrain.

Sometimes it can be hard to know if what you are experiencing in your relationship is "normal conflict" or if it's crossed over into something more harmful like relationship abuse. Relationship violence can include a wide range of behaviors and isn't always easy to detect. Contrary to common misconceptions, relationship abuse does not discriminate based on gender, age, race, or socioeconomic status. It can affect anyone, regardless of background or circumstance. It can also be common to both experience abuse by a partner and sometimes engage in abusive behaviors yourself.

Recognizing Relationship Abuse

Recognizing the most common forms of relationship abuse can be the first step towards seeking help and healing. Some common indicators may include:

1. Physical violence such as hitting, slapping, pushing, throwing objects, or threats with a weapon
2. Emotional/Psychological abuse, including manipulation, humiliation, threats/intimidation, or verbal attacks.
3. Sexual coercion, harassment, or assault, including any unwanted sexual contact
4. Controlling behaviors such as monitoring your phone calls, isolating you from your friends and family, or controlling your finances.

Taking the First Step

If you or someone you know is experiencing relationship violence or abuse, please know that you are not alone and help is available. Taking the first step towards healing can be daunting, but it is also a courageous act of self-love and empowerment.

Contact us today to schedule a confidential consultation with one of our experienced therapists. Together, we can embark on a journey towards healing, growth, and reclaiming the love and respect you deserve in your relationship. You are worthy of a life free from violence and abuse, and we are here to support you every step of the way.