Couples Counseling Services in Brighton and Plymouth, MI.

At MFS, we understand that relationships are an integral part of our lives, and when they encounter rough patches, it can significantly impact our overall well-being. Whether you're experiencing communication issues, conflicts, or a sense of disconnection, our couples and relationship therapy services are here to help you navigate through these difficulties and strengthen your relationship.

Who Can Benefit from Couples/Relationship Therapy?

Couples therapy is beneficial for partners at any stage of their relationship, whether dating, newlyweds, long-term partners, or considering separation. We also see couples and individuals who would like to assess their overall relationship health and might need a “tune up” for their relationship.

Why Couples/Relationship Therapy?

Relationships can be complex and challenging. Couples/Relationship therapy provides a safe and supportive environment where partners can openly communicate, explore underlying issues, and work towards positive change. Here are some common scenarios where couples/relationship therapy can make a positive difference:

Gratitude and Appreciation: Therapy encourages partners to express gratitude and appreciation for each other regularly. By acknowledging and valuing each other's strengths, efforts, and contributions, you can foster a deeper sense of connection and mutual respect.
Shared Activities and Rituals: Engaging in enjoyable activities and creating meaningful rituals together strengthens your bond and creates positive memories. Whether it's cooking together, going for walks, or having a weekly date night, couples therapy can help you prioritize quality time and shared experiences.
Affection and Intimacy: Physical affection and emotional intimacy play vital roles in a healthy relationship. Couples/relationship therapy can address barriers to intimacy, explore love languages, and encourage affectionate gestures to deepen your emotional connection and spark passion.
Communication Challenges: If you find yourselves arguing frequently, struggling to express your needs, or feeling misunderstood by your partner, couples therapy can help improve communication patterns and foster effective dialogue.
Conflict Resolution: If conflicts escalate quickly, remain unresolved, or lead to resentment, couples therapy provides tools and strategies to navigate disagreements constructively and find mutually satisfactory solutions.
Pre-Marital Counseling: Preparing for marriage is an exciting yet significant step. Couples/relationship therapy can help you identify potential areas of conflict, enhance communication skills, and establish a strong foundation for your future together.
Infidelity or Trust Issues: Recovering from infidelity or rebuilding trust after a breach can be incredibly challenging. Couples/relationship therapy offers a safe space to process emotions, address underlying issues, and work towards rebuilding trust and intimacy.
Life Transitions: Major life events such as marriage, becoming parents, career changes, or retirement can strain a relationship. Therapy provides support and guidance as you navigate these transitions together, strengthening your bond in the process.
Cultural or Religious Differences: Partners from diverse cultural or religious backgrounds may face unique challenges in their relationship. Therapy can facilitate understanding, respect, and compromise, bridging cultural or religious gaps and promoting harmony.
Co-Parenting Challenges: Parenting disagreements, blended family dynamics, or co-parenting after divorce can strain a relationship. Couples/relationship therapy offers strategies to navigate co-parenting challenges effectively and prioritize the well-being of your children.
Emotional Health Concerns: If one or both partners struggle with issues such as anxiety, depression, or trauma, couples therapy can provide support, enhance coping skills, and strengthen the relationship amidst these challenges.

Our Approach

At MFS, we believe in a collaborative and skills-based approach to couples/relationship therapy. Our experienced therapists are trained in various evidence-based modalities, including but not limited to:

Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT): Focuses on identifying and reshaping negative patterns of interaction while fostering emotional connection and security.
Gottman Method: Based on decades of research, this approach helps couples strengthen their friendship, manage conflict constructively, and create shared meaning in their relationship.
Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT): Targets unhelpful thought patterns and behaviors that contribute to relationship distress, promoting healthier ways of thinking and interacting.
Integrative Behavioral Couples Therapy (IBCT): IBCT emphasizes understanding and accepting each partner's perspective while promoting effective communication and problem-solving skills. This approach aims to enhance intimacy and satisfaction in the relationship by addressing underlying emotional dynamics and promoting acceptance of each other's differences.
Cognitive Behavioral Conjoint Therapy for PTSD (CBCT for PTSD): CBCT for PTSD is a specialized form of couples therapy designed to address post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) within the context of a romantic relationship. This therapy helps couples understand how PTSD affects both partners and teaches coping strategies to manage symptoms while strengthening the relationship. CBCT for PTSD emphasizes communication, empathy, and collaboration in navigating the challenges of PTSD together, fostering resilience and healing within the couple.

Getting Started

Taking the first step towards couples/relationship therapy can feel daunting, but it's a powerful investment in the health and longevity of your relationship.

If both you and your partner are willing to come in for an initial appointment, please take that first step now. Our couples counseling specialist will meet with you confidentially to discuss your concerns and ask questions to determine which therapy approach would best help to improve your situation. If your partner is not willing to come in to meet with us at this time, it is perfectly okay (and quite common, actually) for you to come to the initial appointment by yourself. We will work with you to figure out the best way to proceed so that things can improve.

Are you experiencing Intimate Partner Violence (IPV) in your relationship?

Intimate partner violence encompasses a range of behaviors that either partner can use to exert power and control over the other. This can manifest in various forms, including physical, emotional, sexual, and financial abuse. Contrary to common misconceptions, IPV does not discriminate based on gender, age, race, or socioeconomic status. It can affect anyone, regardless of background or circumstance.

Recognizing the Signs

Recognizing the forms of intimate partner violence is the first step towards seeking help and healing. Some common indicators may include:

Physical violence such as hitting, slapping, or pushing.
Emotional abuse, including manipulation, humiliation, or threats.
Sexual coercion or assault.
Controlling behaviors such as monitoring phone calls, isolating the partner from friends and family, or controlling finances.

At MFS, we understand that IPV is often accompanied by complex emotions, including fear, shame, and confusion. Our therapists are here to provide non-judgmental support and guidance as you navigate this challenging terrain.

Taking the First Step

If you or someone you know is experiencing intimate partner violence, know that you are not alone, and help is available. Taking the first step towards healing can be daunting, but it is also a courageous act of self-love and empowerment.

Contact us today to schedule a confidential consultation with one of our experienced therapists. Together, we can embark on a journey towards healing, growth, and reclaiming the love and respect you deserve in your relationship. You are worthy of a life free from violence, and we are here to support you every step of the way.